As mature-age learners, we can find it particularly challenging to manage multiple life responsibilities alongside our studies. We need to schedule our studies between work, personal commitments, life responsibilities and, of course, self-care. Then there are always the curve balls... kids get sick, natural disasters strike, a work-based project has its deadline brought forward – but how do you manage it?
The key is simply embracing your studies as another aspect of your life. It is not a task you NEED to do, but one you WANT to do because you keep your end goals in sight. Embrace your study time as a gift – time that you get to spend nourishing your mind. Don't view your time completing assessments as another task, rather, see it all as a gift – it’s dedicated time to let your learning shine through and creativity flow!
Confidence is another big one. A common concern among mature-age learners is that their long absence from educational settings makes them fear falling behind in technology or academic requirements. This feeling is completely normal. However, it does not indicate that you aren’t ready. Trying something new requires bravery to take that first step. Find yourself a mentor or a coach, and lean into any resources you can (carpooling for the kid's soccer/dance/music practice with other parents can be a total game changer!). Consider hiring a cleaner - even if it’s just a one-off to get you ahead before you start your studies. Appreciate any support people can give - you will always be able to support them, even in some small way, in return. This practical and emotional support proves essential for overcoming these challenges. People who understand your situation, including peers, mentors and family members, will often surround you to offer support. Or, you might have to do it alone – and if so, all the power to you! Once you graduate, you will see, feel and know that anything is possible .
Finally, self-compassion is essential. You don’t have to do it perfectly. Progress requires moving forward through each individual step. Sweep your perfectionism under the rug. Trust me, it’s liberating**.
**Yes, OK – I admit I am still working on this one myself. It’s a process! I've been an ongoing mature-aged learner for over a decade.
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